Your post randomly came up on my feed, I read it yesterday and haven’t stopped thinking about it since! Thank you so much for sharing this, it really made me think and reassess situations I’ve been in before.
whenever i’m reading on substack i have the urge to comment as i read as if i’m responding to a long text from my best friend. this is to say: the fact that his name is doug is already not giving good date
yeah honestly i had no idea it could get so bad. like doug progressively got more and more concerning. i’m sorry he dumped that onto you💔 it’s so hard as a sensitive person not to care/feel responsible for helping everyone
thank you, i appreciate it 💕 it wasn't great... honestly the thing i'm most upset about now is that i'm normally super discerning and i missed this one.
Hey I hear you on this but have you heard about the victim's triangle? It was a new one for me too, but apparently the rolls are victim, rescuer and perpetrator and you just kind of bounce around that? I also understand doing things solely for the plotline but I'm glad you blocked him. Remember that you can only try to ease people's suffering. You cannot solve their problems. Thanks for trying and take care of yourself.
Your post randomly came up on my feed, I read it yesterday and haven’t stopped thinking about it since! Thank you so much for sharing this, it really made me think and reassess situations I’ve been in before.
glad you liked it and it resonated with you!
whenever i’m reading on substack i have the urge to comment as i read as if i’m responding to a long text from my best friend. this is to say: the fact that his name is doug is already not giving good date
oh my god i know honestly it was my bad for trying to look past it
yeah honestly i had no idea it could get so bad. like doug progressively got more and more concerning. i’m sorry he dumped that onto you💔 it’s so hard as a sensitive person not to care/feel responsible for helping everyone
thank you, i appreciate it 💕 it wasn't great... honestly the thing i'm most upset about now is that i'm normally super discerning and i missed this one.
Hey I hear you on this but have you heard about the victim's triangle? It was a new one for me too, but apparently the rolls are victim, rescuer and perpetrator and you just kind of bounce around that? I also understand doing things solely for the plotline but I'm glad you blocked him. Remember that you can only try to ease people's suffering. You cannot solve their problems. Thanks for trying and take care of yourself.
interesting! i have not heard about that but i'll definitely look into it. thank you for sharing :)